How to STOP trading your life for your career (and rebuild health, family and freedom at the same time)
You will walk out with a 3-year blueprint to living your best life, and for the first time in 20 years – a clear sense of who you truly are beyond just the corporate title.
Dear Reader,
My name is Amit Sharan, and I want to share something deeply personal with you.
It was late Sunday night. The mall was nearly empty by then, and I was sitting alone in my car in the basement parking, waiting for my wife to finish shopping.
I was exhausted. The entire week had drained me, and all I wanted was to get home, switch my brain off, and sleep.
I had spent the entire weekend replying to work messages, mentally preparing for Monday, and telling myself I'd "properly relax next week."
Maybe it was the silence.
But sitting there in that stillness, I started thinking about what was really happening in my life.
I tried to name one thing… just one thing in my professional life that I was genuinely excited about.
Not proud of. Not "doing well at." Excited about.
I sat there for several minutes. I could not come up even with a single thing.
And it was a strange realisation, because my life on paper was great.
After all, I graduated from IIM-C, spent two decades stepping up the corporate ladder.
I had a title to boast about on LinkedIn, a package most people would trade places just to be in my position.
But sitting in that parking lot, realising this truth was hard on my chest. I sat there numb.
Then it hit me.
My last health report had no major warning signs, but it did show low vitamin D and very high cholesterol levels.
My daughter was entering her teenage years and I hadn't had a real conversation with her in weeks.
My parents were getting older in a city I didn't live in, and our phone calls had become short and infrequent.
I had followed every rule of this world. Studied hard, took the coveted job, cleared my loans, got married, had children, made some money.
And yet, on a Sunday evening in a basement parking lot, I couldn't name one thing I was genuinely excited about.
Now – why am I telling you this?
Because that evening became the beginning of a completely different journey for me.
A journey to rebuild my health, reconnect with my family, redesign my relationship with work, and most importantly…
Figure out who I actually was when you take away my corporate title.
The discoveries I made during that journey are what I now use to help senior professionals like you navigate today.
People who seem successful on the outside – but feel like they've lost themselves somewhere along the way.
If any of this is sounding uncomfortably familiar – keep reading.
Because over the next 4 months, I want to help you rebuild the parts of your life that got lost while building a successful career.
This letter is for you if…
- You wake up tired almost every day – and somehow survive the entire week with no real energy in your body.
- Your last health report started showing pre-diabetes, blood pressure, high cholesterol, or other health conditions you never thought would happen to you.
- You joined a gym with full motivation… and stopped going within weeks because life came in between.
- You have read Atomic Habits, 7 Habits, The One Thing and dozens of other books… highlighted pages, underlined lessons – but nothing really changed.
- You know what you should be doing right now… but something inside you keeps resisting it.
- You are extremely self-critical – and no matter how much you achieve, it still feels like you are falling short somewhere.
- Your relationship with your spouse is slowly drifting away with no real intimacy, as if you are living with a roommate.
- Your teenage son or daughter has slowly stopped sharing things with you… to a point where you genuinely cannot remember the last time they came to you just to talk.
- You have no real friends left to talk your heart out to – as if you have lost those friends and all the memories you made in your younger days.
- You know one WhatsApp message to an old batchmate, colleague, or friend can get you a new opportunity… but asking for help feels like failure.
And despite everything you have achieved… there are moments where you wonder:
"Is this really what the next 20 years of my life are going to feel like?"
"I have been working with Amit for almost 3 months now and I see drastic transformation in the way I think. He has motivated me to do self reflection which was something that I never thought of exploring. He made me identify my goals and got me to think of the steps to achieve it. After 3 months when I revisited my goals, I saw how differently I think now. I was happy that I was on a path to achieve everything I thought of, though the path chosen now with Amit's help is drastically different from what I have been doing all these years. On the whole it has been a very enriching journey with Amit. He has been patient, humorous, stern when needed, hand-holded when required."
– AVP, MNC BankIf you relate to any of the above – then what I have for you might just change how you look at your life, permanently.
Because the problem was never that you needed help.
The real problem is that the identity which helped you build a successful career… is no longer helping you build a meaningful life.
You see, the version of you in your late 20s – ambitious, hungry, always available – did whatever it took to build the life and career you have today.
But that same identity is now holding you back.
You cannot become the person you want to be at 50… by continuing to live the way that made you successful at 35.
After working with tens of senior professionals, I have understood that the next chapter requires a different way of looking at life.
And that's why I created Design Your Dream Life. Here's how it works:
Design Your Dream Life In 4 Months
Month 1
Get the Clarity
Most people spend years building a career without ever asking themselves what they actually want from life.
That's why we create your "Big Dream Blueprint" – a documented 3-year vision across career, health, relationships, freedom, and personal fulfilment.
- A precise map of where you are right now across every area of your life.
- A 3-year vision across career, health, relationships, time and money freedom, and your sense of self.
- The 4-5 internal patterns that have been running your life for decades.
For almost all of my clients, this becomes the most honest conversation they've had with themselves in decades.
"Amit's coaching session provided me with great clarity and a sense of direction I had been seeking. He introduced a structured framework tailored to my goals, which made the challenges feel manageable. Amit's regular follow-ups and genuine commitment to my progress kept me motivated and on track. His insights, patience, and ability to guide with precision have been invaluable."
– Head of Channel Marketing, Consumer Goods Major
Month 2
Remove the Resistance
The blueprint will tell you exactly what to do.
But you will realize the problem was never information – you already knew what needed to change.
So we hunt down each of those voices and break them, one by one.
- You stop avoiding the conversations you have been avoiding.
- You catch yourself reaching for another book, another course, another distraction – and you put it down.
- You send the message. Make the call. Have the conversation. Go to the gym.
And you realise the resistance you spent 20 years believing was real was mostly a story you had been telling yourself.
"Amit has a unique ability to challenge your thinking, offer practical perspectives, and push you to operate with greater clarity and intent. At the same time, he brings a rare combination of empathy, patience, and deep listening. He creates a space where you feel both supported and stretched. Amit doesn't let the process fade. He consistently nudges you to stay committed to change, ensuring that insights translate into action."
– Head of Strategy, Nazara Technologies
Months 3 & 4
Rebuild Your Life
This is where your life starts changing in visible ways. You stop postponing the things you've been thinking about for years.
You begin showing up consistently for your health. You have the conversations you've been avoiding.
You reconnect with people who matter. You create boundaries around work. You finally make the career decision you already know needs to happen.
By the end of Month 4, these are not motivated bursts. They are who you are now.
120 days of practice, and the new patterns hold on their own.
"I love Amit's non-judgemental behavior, his 'go to' and 'always approachable' personality, his heavenly voice, practical and simple yet effective solutions. With Amit's coaching, I have been able to achieve an improved social image, enhanced mental and physical health, improved personal relationships, better temperament, increased self-power, better decision making."
– CA Abhinav Agarwal, Owner, Hot Pot TeaMy Daily Accountability + Weekly Strategy – 120+ Touchpoints Over 4 Months
Over 4 months, you and I will work closely together through:
- 16 × 75-minute weekly 1:1 strategy sessions
- Daily WhatsApp accountability
- On-demand support before difficult conversations or major decisions
Because lasting change does not happen through motivation. It happens through consistent action, support, and accountability over time.
Your situation four months from now does not have to look the same…
- Your marriage does not have to become a separation by 50.
- You do not have to sacrifice your health for your career and end up with serious medical conditions.
- You don't have to be at anyone's mercy – taken for granted and suddenly handed your resignation, as if all the hard work you did never really mattered.
- The worst thing is not being fired. The worst thing is never understanding what it meant to build a solid network of peers who cheer you on – instead of feeling looked down upon when you ask for help.
"Before working with Amit, I was struggling due to lack of a structured approach to manage unwelcome change. Amit helped me in having a structure for my goals, tracking small efforts where it was not easy and opening up tough conversations to mentally be prepared in advance. His style is relaxed which helps. I have achieved positive development on three fronts (health, family outcomes and professional outcomes). It is a job half done so I will continue to push. I feel like the problems are solvable with a coach on my side."
– Director, Nomura, UKThis is why I am inviting you to take a call with me and build the next chapter of your life together.
Picture this:
- Excited about waking up at 5:45am without an alarm because you actually want to begin the day you have designed.
- Fearlessly opening your next annual health report because the numbers are finally moving in the right direction.
- An intimate Friday evening dinner with your wife where the phones are away, and the conversation feels like it did years ago.
- A heartfelt conversation with your daughter – about her day, her doubts, the boy in her class – because you have earned that respect back over 120 days of being actually present.
- A career you are proud of and that gives you the freedom to take two hours on a Wednesday afternoon, not compromise your work, and do exactly what you want to do with your family.
- And a peaceful sleep at night knowing that even if tomorrow brings a new problem, you have the tools, the people, and the inner calmness to deal with it.
Take the Next Step And Design Your Dream Life With Me.
If you are ready to rediscover your purpose for life while rebuilding relationships with loved ones and restoring robust health…
If you are ready to reclaim control over your time and create lasting habits that give you deep fulfilment, not just the corporate success…
Then click the button below and schedule your strategy session now. I will see you on the other side.